Saturday, June 30, 2012

Reading Recap {June}

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Book: A Tree Grows in Brooklyn
This is a classic coming-of-age novel about a young girl living in the tenements of Brooklyn. The story is set at the turn of the century (1902-1919) and contains many historical elements of that time period. However, it has a message that transcends the ages. The first part of the book was slow moving and hard to get through, but I was hooked after I got over that hurdle. I came to love the main character, Francie Nolan. She is one of those characters that you remember long after you’ve finished the book. Betty Smith writes in a way that you live life with Francie and I felt like I was transported to the streets of Brooklyn while reading. I loved this classic and would highly recommend it.

GileadBook: Gilead
This is not a book that I would have picked out on my own. I read about it on a blog that I follow, so when I found it at a local thrift store I immediately bought it. It is a fictional autobiography of a minister living in Iowa during the 1950s. The preacher is in his mid-seventies and writes to his son a collection of thoughts and memories in the form of journal entries. It truly is a father’s dedication of love to his son. He covers topics like faith, love, jealousy, etc. in a contemplative yet simple way. There are no chapters and the storyline moves slowly. I liked this book, but I didn’t love it.

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Book: Like Water for Chocolate
This story takes place in turn-of-the-century Mexico during the Mexican Revolution. Tita De la Garza is the youngest daughter of a well-known rancher and is destined to remain single in order to care for her aging mother. The plot heightens as she falls in love with a man who is forced to marry her older sister. The story became stranger with each chapter as it incorporated more and more fantasy. It seemed like a mystical soap opera. I wanted to like this acclaimed classic, but I struggled to connect. I wouldn’t recommend it.

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Book: The Glass Castle
Jeannette Walls recounts the very unconventional way that she was raised in this memoir. Her father was brilliant and energetic, but was also an alcoholic. Her mother didn’t want to be responsible for her children, and devoted most of her time to her art. They lived like nomads in the southwestern desert towns, and would move on to a new town whenever bill collectors came or a problem arose. She tells shocking stories of fires, hunger, injuries, cold, neglect, and taunts from her peers that she faced along with her siblings while growing up. There were a few times while reading that I had to remind myself that this was real and not fiction!  She tells her story without an ounce of pity in tone. I was captivated from the first page and would highly recommend this memoir.

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Book: Bloom
Kelle Hampton was ecstatic about the birth of her second child. She had everything planned to welcome her second baby girl in the world, so she was shocked to the core when her daughter, Nella, was born with down syndrome. In this memoir, Kelle recounts how she worked through her initial grief and denial  to acceptance. I was in tears as she told the story of Nella’s birth. She is completely honest and doesn’t gloss over anything to make it sound better. The memoir shows her progression from a heartbroken mama to a mama utterly in love with her baby girl. Kelle is a passionate writer and I felt like she captured every detail perfectly. Also, this is one of the most beautifully designed books I’ve ever read. She included photographs all throughout the book. I would recommend this one. {Check out Kelle’s blog here.}

What have you read this month?

Thursday, June 28, 2012

Ablaze

I have loved following along with Annie, Nicole, Erin, and Annie this week to learn more about how they have pursued Christ is the midst of singleness, dating, breaking up, and marriage. We are to purposefully pursue Christ no matter what are current relationship status might be. In our hearts we know this is true, but we can easily become distracted. The distractions can vary depending on what season we are in. When we’re single, we wonder when we will meet the godly man we’ve been faithfully praying for. When we’re dating, we can be caught up in our growing romance. When we’re married, our focus changes as we start to live life with this man we promised forever to.

I’m in a season of singleness and I’m going to attempt to share how I pursue Christ in the midst of being single…

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It would be nice if he was already in my life. If I knew the name of the man who I will one day give my heart to. To know the sound of his voice and the way my hand feels securely in his. I go to school at a small Christian university where it seems like half the students are in a relationship. There is always news of a new couple or an engagement. The professors joke about the girls on campus getting a "ring by spring" and that the new chapel was built to promote all the student weddings. I can easily be consumed with longing to be in a relationship that I take my gaze off of Christ.  Part of me longs for the day that I meet him, but the other part is so thankful for this time before he enters my life. There is tremendous beauty and opportunity in this season of singleness.  My attention isn't split and I can diligently pursue Christ without a divided heart. Of course I still have struggles, but I'll face challenges no matter what my relationship status might be. The struggles will just manifest differently.

Here is what I've found helpful in pursuing Christ during this time:

1. Have a focused quiet time every day. I like to have my quiet times in the morning right after I wake up. I don't turn on my computer until I've spent time with the Lord to avoid distractions such as Facebook, Blogger, email, etc. I commit my time to the Lord first.

2. Celebrate with your friends that are in relationships. It's so easy to let bitterness creep in as your friends enter relationships while you remain single. To overcome that I focus on celebrating with them as they grow in their relationships the way that I would want them to celebrate with me one day. I rejoice in the love story that God is scripting for them. By rejecting bitterness, I'm able to keep my gaze on Christ.

3. Approach this season one day at a time. Mosy likely, God has not called you to be single forever and He has a beautiful love story scripted uniquely for you. Leslie Ludy told the story of her sister-in-law's season of singleness in one her books. One day, her sister-in-law, Krissy, was asked whether she thought she was called to singleness, and Krissy responded by saying, "today I am." That comment has stuck with me and I've embraced it as my outlook. I know that God has given me all that I need to live out today.

4. Realize that you have a love story with your heavenly Prince. Even the most beautiful earthly love stories are mere glimpses of the heavenly love story we can have with Him. He is not a stoic or distant God, but a God who pursues and woos His bride. In Sacred Singleness, a young woman shared her realization  of this truth..."Suddenly, with overwhelming clarity, I realized how God felt about me - how much He loved me and longed for me to truly be in love with Him. And instead of dreaming of the marriage vows I hoped to someday share with an earthly prince, the passion of my life began to focus more and more around the vows I should be saying and living daily with my heavenly Prince."

I truly hope this encourages you to pursue Christ in the midst of this season!

If you missed this series, catch up now:
Annie @ What She Saw: on singleness
Nicole @ Bloom: on dating
Erin @ Sweetness Itself: on breaking up/post relational singleness
Annie @ Turning Pages: on marriage

Tuesday, June 26, 2012

Links to Love

Today I'm linking up with Allie from {sequins & faith.} to share a few links I've found lately that I love. Allie has such a heart for Jesus and her posts always contain so much biblical wisdom and encouragement. Her blog has become a daily read of mine! Go check her out.

Here are some links I've loved lately:

I'm loving the series of posts on fearlessly pursuing Christ no matter what your relationship status might be hosted by four lovely ladies. They're sharing how they have pursued Christ in the midst of singleness, dating, breaking up, and marriage. Read the post on pursuing Christ in the midst of being single by Annie and the post on pursuing Christ while dating by Nicole.

Sunday Crossbow is a fashion blog that I recently discovered, and I adore her fresh and feminine style. Her outfits are budget friendly yet elegant and stylish.

Ben Rector is one of my favorite musicians and this video of him covering "I Wanna Dance With Somebody" has been on repeat. It's just so good.

If you've followed the blogging world for any time, you should be familiar with this rockstar family. They live in Washington D.C. and go on so may adventures with their two littles. I love seeing what their family is up to and if you've never checked them out you should! Naomi's blog is a must read.

Finally, I'm loving this blog. Bailey is currently an au pair in Germany and is able to do lots of traveling around Europe. She shares her adventures and her photos are spectacular. Her photos from Bavaria make me want to hop on a plane right this minute!

Now, it's your turn to share what you love!

Monday, June 25, 2012

I am me.

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I eat frozen yogurt for dinner more often than I should.
Used book stores make me giddy with excitement.
I secretly love that I get told how much I look like my mom all the time.
I dance in the aisles of grocery stores.
I hate taking pills so much that when I have to I make lots of exaggerated faces.
I’ve never had a messy room. Truly I haven’t.
I collect children’s books for my future classroom library…I have 287 so far.
I could eat coconut by the handful.
I'm a morning person. I have 7:45 and 8:00 classes, but I like it.
I watch Sweet Home Alabama every time it’s on television.
I dream about teaching overseas, but I would be just as happy in a classroom here.
I embrace change (most of the time).
I’m so thankful that I’ve never given my heart away. I’m saving everything for the man I marry.

What makes you who you are? Make your own list.

{The idea for this post came from Emily at meme & he}

Friday, June 22, 2012

Letter Day

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It’s Friday again, which means it time to link up with Ashley from Adventures of Newlyweds to write a few letters! Without further ado…

Dear morning cup of coffee,

I’m naturally a morning person, but you make waking up so much sweeter. You are the best companion as I sit on the front porch and get ready for the day.

Dear Gilmore girls,

Your wittiness keeps me on my toes and makes me laugh every time. I love that you remind me of my relationship with my mom. I’ve been watching you so much I’m starting to think that I live in Stars Hollow…

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Dear teacher blogs,

You are such an inspiration to me as a future teacher! I love seeing how you incorporate creativity into your classrooms while still meeting curriculum standards. You are a huge resource to me and your passion for teaching is such an encouragement!

Dear local thrift stores,

Thanks for the “treasures” I’ve found lately! The perfect summer dress, a white pencil skirt, and four books that I’ve had on my Amazon wish list for the longest time.

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{Books: The Tiger's Wife, Gilead, The History of Love, and The Glass Castle}
Dear 2 Thessalonians 3:5,

You are my summer verse…”May the Lord direct [my] heart into God’s love and Christ’s perseverance.” I pray that I would continue in this prayer for a lifetime.

Happy Friday, sweet girls!
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